Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Treading cautiously

I've been in serious love once before and it had disastrous consequences.

I knew things would not work out. But you don't realize these things, do you? I went ahead, got mired in it, deeper and deeper with each passing day.

In the end, when things blew up in my face, it was really difficult to handle. I could really have done without another problem. But, as I said before, you don't realize these things.

Now, I suspect I'm going down that route once again. I need to avoid this at all costs. I know that in my situation, this is not a luxury I can afford.

Fortunately, I am conscious about this, this time round. I know what's happening. I need to take steps to not let it happen.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congrats!!! No Loss, No Rewards.

Srini said...

Hhhmmm, we ppl think that we shudn't get in to those things but ultimately we can't stop/restrict ourselves from loving someone whom we admire, someone who has all hte qualities we are looking for, someone who is very sweet n caring towards us. The only way i can think of is staying away from those ppl, if u really don't want to get in to those things, if u continue talking to her moving close to her then definelty u wont be able to restrict ur self getting in to position where u heart might broke in to pieces once again, or else accept the facts and get ready to face wat ever comes ur wy in life, if u can do that then u can pretty much be happy with her, try to take care of her, spend as much as time u can with her n be happy, but all the time u shud keep one thing in mind n that is that even tomorrow if u dont get her u shud not feel bad n continue the life as if nothing happenend, try to search for happiness in something else.


I know that talking all these much simpler than implementing but then t some point of time we have to accept these things n keep ourselves going.

--Sri

Bill Peckham said...

Well you know your situation but I hope when you wrote "I know that in my situation, this is not a luxury I can afford" you did not just mean dialysis. I always say you shouldn't make decisions for other people. Be yourself and let others decide for themselves.

Is following your heart a luxury? Or is withdrawing from a relationship a luxury?

Kartik said...

I guess I agree with Bill! :)!

Aditya J said...

Well, As Steven Tyler Often says - "Falling in Love is Hard on the Knees". So use adequate protection (snigger, snigger) and you should be fine.